I heard yelling outside of my window today. In the distance a young couple were fighting as they stood about a hundred feet apart out in the street. I watched the young man yelling and flailing is arms. His voice was much louder than hers. She stood there with her hood up over her head as if she needed to protect herself, saying something back which I could not understand each time he yelled at her. Tears came to my eyes as I listened to the couple fight. I wanted to help but was powerless. I wished that they could do it differently. No matter what the problem was between them did it really matter all that much. No matter what she had done or what he had done, what they were doing was not working. He clearly was not understanding her and listening to her, and she was not listening or understating him either. For some reason I was more focused on his behavior. He was leading with his anger. I wanted him to walk over and kiss her on her head and tell her that she was the most important thing in the world to him. To tell her that he loved her. He could then tell her that they have differences and he wanted to work them out in a more caring way. Sounds easy when you are not involved. Although arms may not flail and I don't yell so that the neighbors could hear, there has been plenty of room for improvement when I myself have been in a conflict. Of course there have been many time during a conflict that I related from my higher self, given a loving gesture or made great efforts at listening. Some people may not agree! How many times could I have been more loving in the midst of a disagreement. Kissed my love one on the head and tell her that she was the most important thing in the world to me. The man in the street had become so emotionally upset that he lost his mind. Well lets put it differently. The problem solving part of his brain was not functioning. I like the term "Limpic Hijack", It describes what happens when our reptilian brain, prevents our pre-frontal cortex from functioning. The frontal part of our brain helps up self-regulate our emotions. It is seat of creativity and helps us solve problems more effectively. It was just gone!